instruction crossword clue dan word Videos

Did you mean?

Search Results - Showing 0 - 12 Of 79

A married man says he became “obsessed” with another woman after meeting her at a course - but his wife has since forgiven him after realising it “wasn’t his fault”.<br/><br/>Ruth Perl, 58, and her husband David, 64, have spent 13 years recovering from the incident.<br/><br/>David never acted on his feelings towards the person he fancied - but he chose to tell the woman after confiding in Ruth.<br/><br/>He started researching an emotional experience known as ‘limerence’ - which means intrusive, romantic thoughts about another person. <br/><br/>David realised his feelings were unwanted - he had no control over them and wasn't interested in beginning an affair with the woman. <br/><br/>After telling Ruth about his realisation, the couple spent time rebuilding their relationship - and say they’re happier than ever.<br/><br/>David, a couples’ therapist from St. Albans, Herts., said: “It wasn’t a normal crush, it was weird and disturbing - but we’ve put in the years to heal ourselves since.<br/><br/>“It was a difficult one - I did end up telling the other person, as I was encouraged to do so through therapy.<br/><br/>“I think she was horrified - in hindsight, it was really unfair to put that on her.<br/><br/>“But it’s all about forgiveness, we’ve done the work and are happier than ever.”<br/><br/>David met the woman he developed feelings for on January 14, 2011 - after chatting to her at a training course.<br/><br/>Their conversation lasted less than 20 minutes, but David could feel he was “besotted” by her - without being able to put a finger on why.<br/><br/>“I’ve had crushes before,” he added. “We both have. But nothing like this - this was really unusual.”<br/><br/>David thought about her, night-and-day, for weeks.<br/><br/>He looked online at forums about “obsessive love” - and came across a post about limerence.<br/><br/>He said: “I thought, 'jeez, this is what I’ve got to a T.'<br/><br/>“Something’s not right - I was absolutely obsessed and I only spoke to her for 20 minutes.<br/><br/>“I kept going over every single word she said to me, every little action.<br/><br/>“The moment I’d wake up, I’d rehearse in my head what I might say to her if she came up to talk to me.<br/><br/>“I’d experience soaring highs if she replied to an email - and extreme lows if she didn’t.<br/><br/>“It was like an intermittent reward.”<br/><br/>Knowing the feeling wasn’t going to go away any time soon, he decided to tell Ruth - who also works as a couples’ therapist.<br/><br/>She said: “David told me, and this was all going on about five days after my dad’s funeral.<br/><br/>“I was in horrific grief at the time, and so my first thoughts were: ‘Oh, for god’s sake. How can you be so bloody stupid?’<br/><br/>“My dad had just died, and my husband wanted to p*ss off into fantasy land.<br/><br/>“We went into freefall, and it was a very, very difficult 12 months.”<br/><br/>After choosing to concentrate on grieving for her dad for a year, Ruth says she “finally had the brain capacity” to sit down with David, and ask him what was going on.<br/><br/>He hadn’t acted on his feelings - and actively decided he wouldn’t “consummate” the crush.<br/><br/>“David reached out to me,” Ruth said. “He asked me, ‘please help me understand what’s going on.’<br/><br/>“He was so confused. I asked him if he still wanted to be married, and he said, ‘I don’t want to throw away what we’ve got.’<br/><br/>“I told him to sit in the confusion, and I’d do what I could to support him.<br/><br/>“But I knew that what will be will be, we might not necessarily make it out of this.”<br/><br/>David said: “We started having marriage counselling - and one thing I want to stress is it isn’t an excuse to cheat.<br/><br/>“I was responsible for what I did - but it did make me realise that often, people don’t set out to have an affair.”<br/><br/>David explored some of the ways therapists encourage people to “heal” from limerence - including starving themselves from contact, or consummating it with the other person.<br/><br/>He settled on going to therapy, and letting the woman know he couldn’t speak to her anymore.<br/><br/>Now, David and Ruth help other couples going through the same thing - and have taught their children, Hannah-Mai, 32, and Isobel, 29, how to value their own relationships.<br/><br/>Ruth said: “It was important our two daughters knew about all this.<br/><br/>“They were older teenagers when this was all going on, and they understood it.<br/><br/>“We thought it was very important for them to understand that all marriages have differences - but you don’t throw the towel in when the going gets tough.<br/><br/>“Even when you’re talking about a full-blown physical affair. Once is a mistake, twice is a habit.”
⏲ 4:49 👁 15.6M
crosswordclues answers
⏲ 15 seconds 👁 3.6K
The New Yorker
⏲ 5 minutes 51 seconds 👁 8.4K
More people from their teens to young adults are getting cancer than ever before, leaving researchers scrambling for clues. Here's what we know, and how you can protect yourself.
⏲ 8:46 👁 4.5M
Teach Wonderful
⏲ 7 minutes 34 seconds 👁 3.2K
Rachel Maddow Presents: Déjà News Podcast
⏲ 44 minutes 46 seconds 👁 250
Episode 5's title suggests a focus on the character Tajdar. This could mean we delve deeper into her personal struggles and romantic entanglements.<br/><br/>The word \
⏲ 1:29:43 👁 4.2M
WIRED
⏲ 11 minutes 28 seconds 👁 899.9K
Business Insider
⏲ 2 minutes 5 seconds 👁 37.1K
Bonza customer and staff are in a holding pattern as the airline tries to resume services. The budget carrier has gone into voluntary administration and says planes will be grounded until Friday. But there is still no word on what will happen after that. The administrators say they are not in a position to give refunds at this time.
⏲ 1:51 👁 5.9M
Puzzling Games
⏲ 7 minutes 55 seconds 👁 8.8K
Emily D. Baker
⏲👁 268
Pages 1 Of 7
... ...
Next »

Related Searches

Search Videos

Recent Searches

chinese hot | monnayage | বাংলা কাঠুন ছোটা ভিম ভিডিও পাঠাও | music jun com shakib video | valobese eibar ay kase tui | bangla hot vidos চোদাচুদিরাংলাদেশী ব্লু ফিল্ম video | sunny leone very saree me | aadvantage number for american airlines | shaktimaan 100 | turkish ramo promo clip | fjfjfja m | bro dan album song tumar del ke doya hoy natasha purnima videos | hare krishna dj | f749a2ebcf8a12a7bf5b375dafe7dec3 jpg | vallavan tamil | girl gurup bhkti sataus | lace eu from bikini bra watch video | bangla google tomar name gan gale kent ashe sur gloria | doomsday clock comic vine | arab slut s | uc browsww | পাখী ঘোষ দস্তিদার | image xunny lione ভুত আসে new actress | p 1zcosyoky | boua siaka | baal inc hotel | গরি তেরা চুরি লাল লাল রে | nitur monohor | cid episode 573 | soti নটি খানার মেয়েদের ছবি | www boss full movie com | আমার খারায়ে যায় কেন | নায়িকাদের গসুল | 蔡甸区模特包夜微信6411439 1209k | nons3fcz0 s | srabon eager din movie songs | কোন চোখের ইশারাতে পাগল বানাইছে | cartoon network abs | বাংলাদেশী গ্রামের মেয়েদের কাপড় খুলে গোসল করিচোদা | মেয়েদের গোছলের ছবি | bangla natok peresan | full ardou6ade0a6bfe0a6a1efbfbd cfg contactform inc cfg contactform inc cfg contactform 1upload cfg contactform upload hack php | yohana antony | bangladeshi video pan rape | golden french manicure | liverpool weather july | s a sumon | bangladeshi movie black moneyww indian | tirasa | veshe jai upol lal tipww bangla pronngla blue film mp4 video | x8xqsuo | vabe ki james | cattleman39s steakhouse redding ca menu | navya of star plus navya octomber2011hdpart1 and 2পি সরাসরি ছবি দেখতে চাই তাড়াতাড়ি vibo new mp3 album porshim | www pakhi niyok niyka | angela hot video | yyuuuiyyyy | bhoot fm april | kuch kuch locahe movi | opuww bangla com video | this is the end trailer | ammur boro boro dudh ঘুমের ঔষধ খাওয়া চুদল ভাই এর hot | bangla hot hu | x8xqqt4 | bangladeshi ns school |